parenting

Suburban Georgia Fact of the Day

2026-09-03

Our oldest child started first grade at the local public school earlier this year. Much to her excitement, she’ll be taking the bus now.

The bus picks up and drops off a short walk from our house, 0.2 miles according to Google Maps, with a sidewalk the entire way.

We signed the release for daughter to be able to get off the bus and walk home by herself, thinking we could teach her to walk it and that she might enjoy the freedom.

Signing this form prompted two calls from the district to make sure we understood what we were signing and were truly comfortable with it. I obviously can’t know this for sure, but in one of the calls they gently indicated to us that we were the only parents who allow this for a child so young.

For clarity, I don’t blame the school here. They’re trying to do right by us and our daughter and if we’re making an unusual choice, calling to confirm is a reasonable thing to do. Still… this is a very restrictive default setting. No wonder 50% of 9-11 year olds don’t get to walk down grocery aisles by themselves!

The difficulty level of children

2025-02-28

Last week I quoted Greg LeMond on cycling.

I was thinking about doing great work when I posted it, but it also applies to kids. Having your first child feels hard (fun, but hard), until you have a second one. Then having one seems easy in comparison, but having two seems hard. This continues with child three, which is all I can speak to from personal experience, but I assume it continues onward from there.

It also runs the other direction. If you have two kids, and one kid is away (with a grandparent), it feels like having zero kids.

Friday threads

2024-03-30

  • Ezra Klein on parenting. Three things I took from this podcast:
    • “I don’t know of any policy intervention that reliably increases fertility” <- a strong argument that culture more than policy is what is leading people to have less children
    • The dueling tension between being the ideal worker — giving 100% to your job, being available, etc. — and the ideal parent as someone who is actively spending time giving their child attention
    • A reminder that opting in to these cultural values is at least to some degree a choice.
  • War on the Rocks: “As I have seen in Ukraine and have observed in other theaters, the introduction of robotic and autonomous systems into the force is liable to increase both the number of people and the diversity of skills necessary within the force.”

How Cocomelon gets made

2022-12-07

From Ezra Klein’s show with Maryanne Wolf about the children’s show Cocomelon

[They] have set up a room, the place that makes Cocomelon, where they will have a kid watching the show. And set up next to it is another screen that shows an adult just doing normal household tasks, just sort of wandering around doing whatever you do in the house. And if the child becomes distracted from Cocomelon by what the adult is doing, they go back to the edit and they amp up the interestingness, the cuts, the whatever makes a Cocomelon episode interesting.

As a product manager, I admire the understanding of the use case and the commitment to execution, but as a parent…